I just want to be liked by good people.

in the evening, I saw Zhang Jingzhi, who had just returned from the United States. he had been invited to join the half-month-long Maxi expedition. As soon as he came back to meet, he shared everything he had encountered on the way with me non-stop.

I asked him, what do you think is the greatest significance of this trip?

he didn't hesitate to tell me that he had met a group of free talent, including those who resigned from state-owned enterprises to become travel photographers, and some family businesses who fled to settle in Thailand, some who had founded Hummingbird Network before, and some who had worked at CCTV.

"they are too good. Everyone treats me as a brother and likes me very much. I will ask some strange things. They all share them with me patiently, and they can't stop talking. "

he told me again that he should not be confined to his own small circle, and his mind is too narrow, so he should jump out quickly.

to tell you the truth, Zhang has changed a lot this year. When he was surprised by the strength of his new friends, he probably didn't realize that he was already getting worse.

A Xing is a friend of mine. last year, she participated in some organizational activities and played the role of roasting chicken wings silently. She would respond respectfully when others spoke to her, but she didn't take the initiative to open her mouth at other times.

once A Xing came to me sadly and told me that someone scolded her for not being able to communicate with others, not having a good relationship with her colleagues, and being indifferent to people.

I asked A Xing, why do you ignore people?

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A Xing said that the other party felt that she asked me a question, and I replied that she loved to answer.

but their so-called communication is all unnutritious gossip, which A Xing doesn't like to discuss in the first place.

"how can you sometimes suffer from talking so much that you can suffer even if you don't speak?"

I've known A Xing for three years, and I know she's not like that.

I remember the last time I went to Guangzhou to take part in a cultural activity. In a brainstorm, she was like a talker, blurting out all kinds of new ideas, which impressed many of the big names here.

when she meets people with different dimensions, she becomes very quiet because she doesn't know what she can talk to them about.

so A Xing felt very sad about their curses and didn't know what to do.

I said to A Xing, do you need their understanding of the people who kidnapped you like this? can their understanding help you improve?

I saw this sentence in Zhihu before, "A good relationship requires an exchange of views, not just an exchange of feelings."

I think it makes sense. Why force A Xing to talk about innocuous scenes in a social relationship with no point of view?

some people don't understand this truth when they are young and just want to keep warm through empathy.

it seems that as long as someone is accompanied and surrounded by people, he is an "open" person.

in the end, it turns out that forced gregariousness is sometimes like mental rape.

watching the screening of the Great Protection Dharma, during the media interview, the TV camera at the scene pointed at Director Bu Sifan and asked him, "can you record something to say to the fans?"

the director thought for a moment, and the reporter said, "just talk about it."

but he still thought about it for a long time. He conceived it and discussed it with his assistant. It took him more than ten minutes to say such a few words.

I can see that he is not good at words, nor is he good at pleasing the audience, but he is a good speaker, and his works imply the power to shock me.

Flower strangers in the movie are affixed with fake mouths and cannot speak because they will be killed. the terrible thing is that they all pretend not to know how to speak and choose to shut up.

Dharma is the first PG-13 film in China. To be honest, it is very difficult to pass the examination. In the middle of his creation, director Bu Sifan also came to a dead end. fortunately, he was later invited back by some people who appreciated him, which successfully led to the birth of this work.

he used to be incomprehensible and confused, but when this group of creators who could get his ideas helped him, he suddenly brought up his creative strength.

in the process of chatting with him, there is no video recording, no Mac, which is not a professional. At the end, he said to me, "you are the one who asked the best question in so many interviews recently."

this made me a little flattered. I thought it was just a scene, but the next day, the film found my contact information and asked if I could read the article I wrote.

on the way back, Brother long told me, "you must become a powerful person and get to know the more powerful people in your eyes, because you will find that the exchange of ideas is so enjoyable."

I think of a designer friend who once taught me an idea. He said, be sure to find good people to work with.

I have been thinking about his sentence. I didn't understand it before, but now I understand it, not only for cooperation, but also for friends.

those who are drifting away and can't understand you, if you really get to the fork, don't dwell on it. Don't be sad, don't bother, don't show off, don't blame yourself again and again, wave goodbye calmly.

because you have to pack your bags, become a good person, and find someone who likes it.

Dharma is the first PG-13 film in China. To be honest, it is very difficult to pass the examination. In the middle of his creation, director Bu Sifan also came to a dead end. fortunately, he was later invited back by some people who appreciated him, which successfully led to the birth of this work.

he used to be incomprehensible and confused, but when this group of creators who could get his ideas helped him, he suddenly brought up his creative strength.

in the process of chatting with him, there is no video recording, no Mac, which is not a professional. At the end, he said to me, "you are the one who asked the best question in so many interviews recently."

this made me a little flattered. I thought it was just a scene, but the next day, the film found my contact information and asked if I could read the article I wrote.

on the way back, Brother long told me, "you must become a powerful person and get to know the more powerful people in your eyes, because you will find that the exchange of ideas is so enjoyable."

I think of a designer friend who once taught me an idea. He said, be sure to find good people to work with.

I have been thinking about his sentence. I didn't understand it before, but now I understand it, not only for cooperation, but also for friends.

those who are drifting away and can't understand you, if you really get to the fork, don't dwell on it. Don't be sad, don't bother, don't show off, don't blame yourself again and again, wave goodbye calmly.

because you have to pack your bags, become a good person, and find someone who likes it.