The best self-discipline: don't procrastinate, don't talk much, and don't do it.

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throughout the great achievements of ancient and modern times, there is a wonderful way to deal with the world.

the life experience of the sages is of great educational significance to us ordinary people.

Don't put things off

if you are a person, you will have inertia.

when everyone is tired and tired, they can't avoid wanting to stop and have a rest.

but what I fear most is the word "procrastination".

Today's work should be done today.

tomorrow after tomorrow, how many tomorrow?

those who do not cherish today, how can they grasp tomorrow?

procrastination is the only way to procrastinate, procrastination is old, procrastination is ruined.

day after day, year after year.

waste time in self-paralysis, small things into big things, good things into bad things, and easy things into difficult things.

in the end, he ended up with nothing and nothing.

Tao Yuanming, a great poet in the Eastern Jin Dynasty, once wrote such a poem to warn the world:

"if you don't start all over again in your prime, you can't do it again in the morning."

be diligent in time, and time waits for no man. "

to be a man, you must cherish your time and diligence; when you do things, you must act vigorously.

nothing in the world is difficult to be diligent, but it is easy to procrastinate.

stop making excuses for yourself, think about it and take action right away.

once you take the first step, the rest may not be as difficult as you think.

Don't talk much

in the Book of changes:

"there are few words for auspicious people, but there are many words for impatient people."

people who are silent tend to act steadily and have good looks, while those who spend a lot of money tend to be grumpy and exaggerated and make enemies to attract trouble.

therefore, keeping your mouth shut is the best way to protect yourself.

Di Zi Gui says:

"it is better to talk less than to talk more, but don't be clever."

means that words are not expensive, but words are more expensive than essence. When you speak, you should seek truth from facts, don't use rhetoric and lip service.

Zhu Ziqing wrote in the article Silence:

"your words should be like the stars of the night, not like New Year's Eve's firecrackers-who wants the overnight firecrackers?"

Mozi has a student named Ziqian, who once asked his teacher for advice:

"which is better, more words or less words?"

Mozi replied:

"Frogs and flies make their mouths dry by barking day and night, but no one wants to listen to them;

and the rooster who announces dawn sings only at dawn, but people all over the world hear it.

so it seems, what's the benefit of talking more?

it is important to choose the right time to speak. "

when you are in a mood, talk about it later;

when you are not sure, say after verification;

speak in detail when there is an emergency;

press not to say when it is not necessary.

Don't talk nonsense about what you shouldn't say, don't talk nonsense about what you can't say, don't talk nonsense if you can't.

the charm of language can be brought into full play only if there is something in the words and a sense of propriety.

people don't do

to be a man, you must know how to behave.

the so-called understanding and propriety means to grasp the yardstick of being a human being.

discretion is a ruler that can be used to measure both yourself and others.

there is a ruler in mind and a degree in doing things: neither lukewarm nor hot, neither humble nor arrogant;

the combination of strength and softness, the outer circle and the inner square; courteous and courteous, moderate and moderate.

advance when you advance, retreat when you retreat, show when you show, and hide when you hide.

do whatever you are in the position and eat whatever bowl you carry.

admiration is worthy of heaven and earth, praise and criticism has its own spring and autumn.

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after reading thousands of sails, I am indifferent to serenity and calm through the vicissitudes of life.

this kind of proper measure is our lifelong pursuit.

Zeng Guofan was originally a scholar, and he learned from an early age the Confucian idea of benevolence and goodness.

unexpectedly, he became a general in officialdom and led troops to fight all day long.

on the battlefield, good people always have good thoughts, but enemies and villains will not be soft on you. Zeng Guofan is very upset about this.

when a friend learned of this, he sent him a pair of couplets: a Bodhisattva with a heart and a thunderbolt.

Zeng Guofan suddenly realized that he took this sentence as his motto.

even among Bodhisattvas, there are "angry King Kong".

those who only take the right degree will punish evil and promote good without mercy.

the greatest evil in the world is to indulge the wicked in the name of goodness.

your goodness needs a yardstick. Don't let yourself become an accomplice to the wicked, which goes against the original intention of goodness.

be tolerant

Master Hongyi said:

"tolerance can eliminate endless disasters and regrets.

make way for life without losing size. "

this sentence is intended to warn us that we need to be patient in everything.

because in the eyes of many people, patience is the easiest and most effective way to solve the problem.

people who are tolerant are more likely to have both sides than those with a straight temper.

retreating three points and giving way is the "wind of a gentleman" respected by the ancients.

trifles that do not touch the bottom line and principles can be tolerated.

however, in the face of major issues of principle of right and wrong, or outrageous atrocities, tolerance is indulgence, silence is indulgence.

the more you give in, the more they will go further, until they finally force the good people to the point where there is no way to go.

when you have nothing to turn back, don't forget your bottom line.